The Talking Self

I become the eldest by marrying the eldest brother :p Try to look a lil bit Gothic :p On the way to Tambun, annual lebaran celebration sisterhood Eid mubarak!

Finally, Mr. SBY followed my advice :p. He invited both president candidates for an ifthar in state palace, with hope that  both candidates would create such peace impression to calm their supporters in connected with the result calculation from KPU, July 22. I had a chance to watch the event on TV, and the first thing I noticed was everybody looked so tense. Why? Wasn't it suppose to be a friendly event, they had to eat on the same table, how could they're not smiling to each other? I just couldn't believe my eyes. These people like nobody in the posters, who always smiled in their pictures with promising sentences this and that. I think the greatest self control of a human being is his attitude towards people no matter how he feels. We are talking about our leaders to be, we expect nothing but the best from them, sometimes we forget that they are humans too like us, who constantly make mistakes, scared and confuse. But also just like us, they must not stop impr...

Marhaban ya Ramadhan.. This holy month started with such news from my daughter, she finally reached her puberty. Today she got her period for the first time. You know how it feels to me? yeah. My kid is growing up. I'm getting old. She handled the situation quite calmly, while I thought she would be panicking like when I was having mine. I think she's got enough information, thank goodness. So, she couldn't fast today, and I spent all day long becoming sleeping beauty. In fact I didn't get up until 5 pm and had my ashr pray in a rush, and hurrily cooked fried banana and fried peuyeum. Perhaps that mess hasn't messy enough, the gas had to be ran off while I was cooking. OMG. However, everything finally finished just in time, Kyara finished making sweet teas and I finished putting the fried things on the table when the azan came. Then we're all having our ifthar together. Alhamdulillah. fyuhh...what a first day to start Ramadhan :D

I cant believe it's almost mid of year again..it feels like its only yesterday I celebrate the changing year in Denpasar and now, it's already 4 months ago! Time surely flies but right now it uses jet power. Right now I'm still laying on my bed, hoping that groceries would cooked by itself (yeah right) because I have a mood in writing and I have to sacrifice something in order to gain something. You know what I mean.. Last thursday night I had a chance to attend an event Quran recital with the orphanage in my friend's office. I've been planning to go there since like hundred years a go but it was last thursday when it finally happened. Actually I was assigned to go to Bandung for an HR meeting in the day after, and I have to go very early since the meeting was held on 8.00, but I have the urge to attend the Quran recital.  It was 19.00 WIB when I got bbm from my friend who invited me there.   F: where are you? M: still at office. What time the recital...

Today is Saturday. It's my laziest day of the week since I had decided, months a go, to never go out of house in Saturdays. The traffic just unbelievable. Now, since I'm doing nothing today, not even coking, I'd like to update my blog. Start from the book I've read so far. I've read 3 books, 2 of them are Pidi Baiq's, Drunken Master and At twitter, and another one is Coconut Principles. A motivational book by my PJID friend, Gede Manggala. I now understand why Dinar, my best friend really love this Pidi Baiq guy. He's a kind of person who takes everything simple. Somehow it reminds me of my ex husband. I kind of pity him, I could never be able to hate him, the feeling like seeing him as disabled person, not totally his fault but he was built with the problem and he just couldn't get out of it. Pity  isn't it? But don't assume he's like PB, PB is much much more than him :D OK, about coconut principles, I got 2 of them and planned to pu...